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My name is Kit Troyer. I’m a stay-at-home dad in Los Angeles. I worked previously as a newspaper reporter and a criminal defense attorney.
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STORM-DRAIN DIRT
I looked back the other day at something I wrote at the beginning of the pandemic. The piece seems naive, ill informed, and overly optimistic. But the basic thesis remains true — there were silver linings to the Covid lockdown, … Continue reading
Posted in DUMB SHIT I'VE DONE, ICE HOCKEY, SELF HELP, SPIRIT
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DAVE’S A MESS
There’s a scene in the old hockey movie Slapshot where an opponent talks trash about the Chiefs’ aging player-captain Paul Newman. One of Newman’s teammates, Dave, is outraged. He drops his stick and attacks the opponent. A bloody brawl ensues. … Continue reading
Posted in COURAGE, DUMB SHIT I'VE DONE, HEROES, ICE HOCKEY, MOVIES, MY CHILDHOOD
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GODDAMN FIXER
I really don’t have much good to say about Chris Fix. Apart from him cooking meals for my son. And rooting for my son at the ice hockey rink. And letting my son stay at the Fix home in Hermosa … Continue reading
Posted in CHILD REARING, COURAGE, ICE HOCKEY
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ON TURNING 50
My 15-year-old son asked this morning whether my young self would have been surprised that today’s world is not more technologically advanced? Still no flying cars, for instance. My young self would have been astounded by iPhones. A device which … Continue reading
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7-STEP GUIDE FOR EXTREME HOCKEY GRIEVING
With only two teams left in the NHL playoffs, a growing number of friends and relatives are dealing with the heartbreak of their favorite teams being eliminated. Myself, I watch from greater emotional distance this year, since my own favorite … Continue reading
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LULU’S VEGAS INSTRUCTIONS
Dear Lulu: Whenever Mom worries aloud about the amount of time you and your brother spend playing ice hockey, I always tell her the sport is valuable for more than just exercise. It teaches discipline, hard work, and getting up off your … Continue reading
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ALEEN MARRIED A FLINCHER, or How I Learned to Break Rocks and Love Kenya
Our family recently returned from southeast Kenya, where we helped work on a new dormitory for a rural, all-girls high school. Because I have no skills in construction, I was worried I would be useless. But our hosts found a job for me — … Continue reading
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VISUALIZING FAILURE
Sometimes I wonder if my kids are aiming high enough. Last week I was helping Jesse tie his skates before an ice hockey game against his sister’s team. I noticed his eyes were closed. “What are you doing?” I asked. … Continue reading
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