I received complaints about the recent shortage of blog posts, especially ones about my wife.
I don’t know whether people have already mastered the previous Aleenisms and begun to incorporate them into daily life. I may conduct a pop quiz to make sure this is so, especially for the readers who complained.
Until then, however, here’s a fresh supply.
Pig in a China Shop. Aleen was recently describing how happy her mom was at the massive monthly flea market at the Pasadena Rose Bowl.
Her mashed-up idiom is a combination of: 1) “like a pig in shit,” which means you do love the thing; 2) “bull in a china shop,” which means you tend to cause havoc; and 3) the fact that her mother loves china and knick-knacks.
I am unsure how to use this Aleenism. It’s still too new. This is why people should not ask for Aleenisms before they have fully ripened. All I know is that I asked Aleen how her mom liked the flea market, and she said, “You know her. She was a pig in a china shop.”
I didn’t know whether to stick around to find out what it meant or hurry off to write a blogpost.
Speaking of Pasadena, Aleen uses the city name to indicate, “No, I will pass on that.”
“Hey, the new Transformers movie actually looks kinda good. Should we go tonight?”
Another saying Aleen uses frequently: Cut to the Chase.
It’s ironic that Aleen says this because, well, I’ll leave it at the fact that it’s ironic.
The latter is my rough phonetic translation for an Armenian expression when people are telling an endless story. I think the phrase derives from the process of pulling apart string cheese into its many strands.
As anyone who has done this knows, you can make the process last forever, if you want. You can pull that hard cheesy coil into a fluffy cloud of wispy threadlike tendrils, and you can take an hour doing it.
So, when my 9-year-old daughter is telling a story in extraordinary detail, her Armenian grandparents turn to me and say, “Soondure, soondure,” which means, She’s stretching it.
For her part, my wife just tells Lulu, “Cut to the chase.”
Fear Is Strong in the Girl. This came from the Star Wars prequel-trilogy. One character remarked about another, ‘Fear is strong in the boy.’
Usually Aleen says this about herself. If she is freaking out about something, and if she realizes she is possibly overreacting, she sheepishly admits: “Fear is strong in the girl.” This is another way of saying, I am being like Mary-Stuart. I am panicking.
Speaking of freaking out, sometimes in this world, a conflict develops between two people, or indeed among a group of people. Sometimes that conflict arises in a mundane context, or over apparently trivial matters. One age-old expression for the latter is, a tempest in a teapot.
Aleen’s own version is, An Incident at Oglala.
The phrase comes from a documentary film about an event which wasn’t trivial at all — the killings of two FBI agents in 1975 on the Pine Ridge Indian Reservation in South Dakota.
This was the case which put Leonard Peltier behind bars for life. The event occurred in the same area where the infamous Wounded Knee Massacre took place in 1890. For Native Americans, the Pine Ridge shootings are a big deal.
However, my wife isn’t Native American. In our household, an Incident at Oglala is a dispute which started out small and trivial and then mushroomed into full-on histrionics and hurt feelings, especially when the fight involved extended family.
Use this phrase as you like, but not around Native Americans.
Speaking of aggression and violence, there is a legend from my own childhood about my first day of preschool. That night I was asked at dinner how the day went.
I allegedly answered with just two words, ‘Rajean pushes.’
I don’t remember saying this. I have no idea who Rajean (pronounced RAH-zhan) was, nor whether he later turned to a life of crime.
What I do know is that I told this story to Aleen years ago. At some point through the years, whenever I was exaggerating or asking for too much or in any other way “pushing it,” she began to caution me, Don’t Push It, Rajean.
Today I hereby admonish the rest of you, too, not to push it, Rajean. Otherwise, you risk becoming pigs in a china shop.